Change takes time
because we usually have to cycle through identifying and testing possibilities a
few times, asking better questions with each round of tests, crafting better
experiments, and building on what we have learned before. Two different rhythms
regulate this cycle.
Speed is of the
essence in moving from making a list of possible selves-in our heads or on paper
to actually testing any one of them. If it seems that relatively few people make
the career changes they dream about it is because many of us just don't take the
first step. Which self we test hardly matters; small steps like embarking on a
new project or going to a night course can ignite a process that changes
everything.
But, paradoxically,
it is usually better to slow down in the testing phase, investing enough time to
explore even those selves that seem less promising. We need time to fully
internalize the self-knowledge we are accumulating with each experience. Even
when taking our time seems unproductive, it is hardly so; we are moving away
from outdated images of what we "ought" to be, of meeting expectations or
pleasing others-the hidden foundation that dictated our old working identity-and
moving toward greater self-direction.'
The reinvention
process challenges us to redefine ourselves. Contrary to popular belief, working
our identities is not an exercise in abstraction or introspection; it is a messy
trial-and-error process of learning by doing in which experience in the here and
now (not in the distant past) helps to evolve our ideas about what is
plausible-and desirable. The most typical problem at mid-career is not defining
what kind of work we find enjoyable and meaningful.
Rather, it is
figuring out how to transfer old preferences and values to new and different
contexts and how to integrate those with changing priorities and newly blooming
potential. It is a problem of recombining and re-anchoring. And the "solution"
is never the job change itself. Self-creation is a life-long journey. Only by
our actions do we learn who we want to become, how best to travel, and what
else will need to change to ease the way.
Variations on
the Theme: Not all reinvention stories start alike. Some clients quit their
jobs to make space before they figure out what they want to do next; others
stay, if only nominally, in old roles until the leap is a forgone conclusion.
Which of these two paths our clients take is partially determined by the nature
of their old career.
Generally,
professionals - consultants, lawyers, financial services professionals,
academics, and, to a lesser degree, physicians - are much more likely to
continue in their jobs until the new identity is close to fully formed, or at
least to withhold quitting until a possible avenue is fairly well defined.
Professionals also seem to have an easier time finding ideas for a new career.
The reasons have little to do with graduate-education credentials and much to do
with the nature of professional work. Professionals simply have more autonomy
over their work schedules than do most other occupational groups. They can come
into the office late or leave early and take days off when they need them (of
course, the quid pro quo includes long hours, missed vacations, and taking work
home over weekends). Professionals always have at least one foot on the
outside-in their work with clients and their frequent interaction with members
of the same profession in the world at large-and that always helps when it comes
to reinvention.
Managers bogged
down by all manner of internal meetings typically do not have a fraction of that
freedom or flexibility. Consequently, they are more likely to suffer from
tunnel vision more likely to need to stop, rest up, and refuel before starting
to think about something new. Executive education courses play such a catalytic
role for managers precisely because they get them out of the office. That tunnel
vision, however, is also the reason why executive programs often involve enough
time away to awaken a desire for change but rarely last long enough to point to
a new direction.
Finding additional
ways of stepping back is especially critical for this population; negotiating
sabbaticals, chunking up vacations, moving to freelance work, or simply chucking
it all without a safety net, are frequently used tactics by managers wanting to
move on to the next thing.
The less time
available to craft experiments, shift professional connections, and make sense
of it all, the more people may need a longer time-out; creative take
time and space to surface. Some clients end up taking more than one sabbatical:
one to recharge batteries, another to focus on finding the new career. Clients
who have lost their jobs (even if they have taken a voluntary severance package)
are at the greatest risk of short-circuiting the process, since they don't have
the option of staggering their time-outs.
Carving a smaller
time-out within a longer fallow period-declaring a three-month moratorium on
talking to headhunters or working the job sites, during which clients give
themselves permission to explore things they enjoy doing even though they are
unlikely leads to a next career-can make all the difference in the mind-set
clients bring to the transition process.'
Mid-career
transitioners need to reverse the "thinking before doing" logic to successfully
change careers. That is not easy to do or to explain in our goal-driven society.
Taking a sabbatical or going back to school is a socially accepted, "legitimate"
way to dedicate themselves to exploration, to following crooked paths. Freed
from the everyday working world, detours and serendipity become possible. A
sabbatical temporarily suspends the rules and demarcates a protected milieu in
which clients can toy with possibilities, knowing they will return to reality
again soon. In the interim, they can test unformed, even risky or conflicting,
identities in a secure environment, incubating provisional identities until they
are ready to claim one or more as truly who they are now.
Women tend to make
more use of time-outs as reinvention strategies than men, for simple social and
economic reasons. Across cultures and occupation groups, it is still more
acceptable for a woman to say that she is taking time to "find herself" than it
is for a man. It is also more likely to be economically feasible, one way or
another. Even in highly educated, relatively affluent circles, men are still
more likely to be the primary breadwinners. But that is changing, and we have
several instances in which members of a couple took turns at reinvention.
Obviously, the
larger context matters, too. Societal cycles of economic prosperity and social
change can affect the timing and form of professional renewal. Our experience
and observation confirm however that the process of renewal unfolds similarly in
both good and leaner economic times.
Another dimension
on which to compare and contrast experiences concerns the outcomes of the career
changes. We are asked one question more frequently than any other: Did anyone
regret the move into the new? Many clients said they made at least one "wrong"
move. But they learned from their mistakes and moved on to something else,
adjusting their course based on their experiences.
Clients did make
trade-offs: Some struggled with lower incomes when they chose to pursue their
passion, and others gave up some measure of challenge or intellectual
stimulation in pursuit of a more secure future. But we encountered great regret
only from those who failed to act, who were unable or unwilling to put their
dreams to the test and to find out for themselves if there were better
alternatives. The only wrong move consisted of no move.
So can anyone,
regardless of education, social class, or gender, make a major change at
midcareer? Our experiences suggest that the answer is yes. The real question is,
"Under what conditions are people able to break with the past and plunge into a
new and happier future? "
There is
no ten-point plan for making a career change. But we have noticed some important
general guidelines. The section called Unconventional Strategies distills those
guidelines as a set of nine unconventional strategies for reinventing your
career: act, then reflect; flirt with your selves; live the contradictions; make
big change in small steps; experiment with new roles; find people who are what
you want to be; don't wait for a catalyst; step back periodically but not for
too long; and seize windows of opportunity.