To know
what you really want, you need to become aware of what causes you to
want what you want, and to get what you want.
To what
extent are you influenced by your thoughts about what other people want?
To see just how much you are being influenced from sources outside
yourself as you come to clarity about what you truly want, do the
Desires Process:
Take out a
sheet of paper and turn it the long way, so that you are writing on it
horizontally, not vertically, from left to right. Now, on that paper
make six vertical columns.
Label the
first column: What I Want.
Label the
second column: What Makes Me Want That.
Label the
third column: What Has Kept It From Me So Far.
Label the
fourth column: What I Think My Chances Are Of Getting This. Label the
fifth column: What Will Happen If I Give This To Myself. And label the
last column: When I Will Go For It.
Now, take a
moment and write in Column 1 at least three things that you want right
now. These can be three big things in your life, or three small things.
It doesn't matter. Just make them three things that you want. Go.